Your modesty is a gift that He will continuously unwrap.
His desire to violate your modesty is part of his dominant pleasure. But know that his dominance is thrilled not just by seeing your naked flesh but also by seeing that slight resistance when made to undress for Him.
It is better for Him if it is difficult for you.
Your modesty says your body is yours, meant to be kept private. Your slavery says your body is owned by Him and meant to be public. This is the tension that He enjoys, the tension you will live in, the tension you would do well to let happen.
Mind you, your modesty should not be a stubborn resistance of your will or a hesitation that comes across as defiance. You must readily obey, of course. But allow your modesty to be what it is. He will sense it. He will savor your propriety being bent as you undress for Him. He will enjoy making you “improper.”
My advice is never apologize for your sense of modesty. Don’t try to overcome it or dismiss it or hide it.
It is in fact a beautiful gift.
6 thoughts on “notes to a younger me 4: modesty”
speaking of gifts , you are a gift to the blogging world. You are clear and concise and write from the heart and brain about life as a slave/ sub
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sindee, you are so sweet!
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Beautiful. Nothing is more exciting, or satisfying, than seeing a slavegirl willingly obey a command that goes against her nature, because pleasing her Master is more important to her than the avoidance of embarrassment or humiliation. In addition, of course, there is the satisfaction received to her insatiable desire to submit to domination. She is never more desirable, or more beautiful, than in that moment. Selfless devotion is an amazing attribute.
I concurr with slave sindee. You are “a beautiful gift,” indeed.
Thank you, slave shae.
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Hmm Shae, I miss,…. or does not fit in this text? Where is She or Her?
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I loved this! It so resonated with me as modesty is directly related to vulnerability and my submissive mind thrives on being vulnerable to him. THEN, I shared your post with my husband and he said, “That’s exactly right! “. HE said that he never thought of it as, “His desire to violate your modesty is part of his dominant pleasure,” but it totally connected with him. Indeed it IS part of his dominant pleasure! So what you posted resonated so much with both of us. You nailed it!!
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jennifer, thanks so much for commenting. I’m glad this resonated with you and your husband. That’s the highest compliment. very much appreciated….
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